{"id":225,"date":"2020-05-04T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gooroo.com\/blog\/?p=225"},"modified":"2020-05-04T13:25:10","modified_gmt":"2020-05-04T17:25:10","slug":"labeling-can-limit-students","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gooroo.com\/blog\/labeling-can-limit-students\/","title":{"rendered":"Labeling can limit students"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

At the grocery store, labels are a good thing. To know what\u2019s inside that can or bag, you read the label. Humans, however, are not so easily reduced to a few descriptors. Yet, we still persist in labeling people. This does more harm than good, especially on children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Common labels children receive<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Growing up, did people place labels on you? Were you the \u201csmart one\u201d? Or perhaps the pretty one or athletic or funny?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labels on children are not helpful and can affect learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If a person had heard their entire life that they are one thing, they define themselves that way. Sandra was told she was \u201cartsy\u201d. So, she assumed that\u00a0math<\/a>\u00a0and science would be hard for her. When faced with a challenge in such subjects, she gave up. She thought she would not be able to grasp the material because she was right-brained.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Often parents do not realize that labeling is hurtful, or that they are even doing it. But the child believes what they are told and can twist it to think those labels are all they ever will be. It may seem like praise when someone tells you \u201cyou\u2019re the smart one\u201d. However, such a label can induce pressure to succeed and always having to \u201cget it right.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labels limit a person\u2019s ability to accurately see themselves as multi-faceted and capable in many areas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These stories play out in hundreds of ways across all kinds of families. Sometimes the labels are harsher and said with a negative tone. \u201cYou are so strong-willed!\u201d The child assumes that this trait is a \u201cbad\u201d thing. The truth is that the world needs strong-willed people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The long-term effects<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Just like labels on cans, labels on people stick for a long time. A child forms limiting beliefs that affect them throughout their school years (and beyond). They think they are only x, y, or z and that those traits are their entire package and it won\u2019t ever change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We, humans, are all complex and diverse. Sam can excel at soccer and biology and drama. Chris can be a whiz with numbers, write poetry, and build birdhouses. And on and on and on. Abilities can be acquired and most children have the ability to learn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tutors often hear a student proclaim, \u201cI can\u2019t do math. I\u2019m good at English<\/a>.\u201d Once a student works with the tutor <\/a>and realizes they can indeed get the hang of equations, their whole world opens up. What narrow notions they once thought about themselves can now be looked at objectively and optimistically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, encourage children of all ages to try new things, to explore and test their wings. They may discover interests and talents they never thought possible. Lose the labels and empower your student to create endless opportunities.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

At the grocery store, labels are a good thing. To know what\u2019s inside that can or bag, you read the label. Humans, however, are not so easily reduced to a few descriptors. Yet, we still persist in labeling people. This does more harm than good, especially on children. Common labels children receive Growing up, did […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":226,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14,9],"tags":[15,12],"yoast_head":"\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\n\t\n\n\n\n\n\t\n